How To Have A Healthy Relationship – The HIS Perspective

“When you are searching for your soul and finding yourself, the universe tends to steer you in the path that is most beneficial for you.” – Written By Hobie Cunningham, Contributing Staff Writer For The Astonishing Tales Digital Magazine

The Astonishing Couple – The Astonishing Sarah Authement and The Astonishing Hobie Cunningham, both writers for The Astonishing Tales Digital Magazine

So the writing of this article was first presented by The Astonishing Kyle Jackson last month and I sort of shot it down. I told him how could I write an article on relationships with my horrible track record. “He jokingly said how about writing about what not to do?”

During this period of time, I was going through a major shift of finding myself. This journey of self-awareness and self-love would become the toughest challenge I took on, but with unbelievable rewards for the outcome.

In this self-discovery, I learned quite a bit about myself. I also made it known to myself I would not be seeking out a relationship for quite awhile. Well, imagine in the midst of making that statement, the universe would have something else in mind.

A connection was spurred about over Instagram with an enlightened soul.

The groundwork was laid for a very strong foundation of friendship and trust. This is so absolutely important to anyone you may be talking with at the beginning.

Communication from the get-go is so vital to the health of a relationship and its full longevity. Having common interests is such a plus too.

To expound upon each other’s knowledge and challenge each other sets the pace for an amazing growth, back to the universe now. When you are searching for your soul and finding yourself, the universe tends to steer you in the path that is most beneficial for you. There were plans I had in my mind still before even thinking about anything more becoming of us.

Random events all of sudden take place taking me completely off track from where “I thought” I was headed. I was steered directly into meeting Sarah. So this nature of finding oneself and crossing paths with another individual doing exactly that creates a resonance of frequencies that align.

This force that seems very magical in nudging you in a direction you were not considering. I always say the term trust the process and it has played true by all means. In today’s fast-paced instantaneous social world, people tend to treat relationships like the new flavor of the week kind of deal. It seems like it is pure emotion and trying to fill some void that people rush in and out of relationships and this can create some mental instability.

Open dialogue with another and learning all the facets and quirks of their personality opens up doorways to a connection for something long-term. Building trust with each other when that is something lacking big time in the world.

Also, another important lesson is BEING YOURSELF. You do not have to try to impress the other person and make yourself out to be something you are not.

This will quickly lead to failure from the start.

From this personal experience that we have embarked on an amazing opportunity that has led us to this place, self-love allowed this miracle to take place.

Once you have found peace within yourself, become self-aware and have nothing but self-love, the universe opens up paths you never thought possible.

The magic lies in two individuals being in this place of love for themselves and all things fall into place.

Why not give it a try!